I am moved to review lol There is just so much to say on this latest development because the general theme is relateable to both genders albeit more commonly to females.
A lot of women blame themselves for the actions of others due to social conditioning. We think we are being logical when we say someone mistreated us because we deserved it for the way we were in that moment or are as a person in general. Fearful, dependent, emotional, too trusting, needy etc. The truth is, courtesy and respect is default behavior. Its not something you earn unlike trust. Anyone treating you otherwise reflects their poor upbringing OR character shortcomings. Ofcource, no one is perfect but that does not mean you cannot civilly disagree and come to a mutual understanding that does not compromise principles. You get educated or worldly exposure to mature this way.
People who frequently get angry or are abusive (verbally, physically, emotionally) in relationships are actually refusing to
1. Work on their shortcomings
2. Address the actual issues bothering them in a level headed manner
3. Bring themselves out of a superiority/inferiority complex.
This is an indication of their unreliability as an individual. Run far away from a person who periodically exhibits these traits; lies, breaks their word, poor safekeeper, gets angry easily, verbally assaultive, a stingy miser.
The list is not meant to be exhaustive, im sure i missed some.
Logic is subjective.
You can know something but having an understanding of it or experiencing it are separate things. The lesson learned when you are hit hard is never forgotten.
Forgive yourself for not believing the signs the other person is blatantly displaying through their words and actions as to who they trully are. Everyone gets fooled sooner or later. Usually mutlitple times if you are living a long life.
As far as Sesshoumaru is concerned, Kagome will realise his only crime is in taking so long to approach her. Everything else was destiny and her choices, good or bad. A wise person may have trust issues because of past ordeals but they dont dole out resentment , certainly not where its not belonging or originating from in the first place.
To any person out there who has gone through hell, forgive yourself and strive towards moving forward. Ores go through a purification process for metal extraction.
To any person out there who has raged hell on other peoples lives and are reading this, seek forgiveness sincerely, move on choosing to be a better person by being a better version of you.
Looking forward to you completing this fic. You got some serious writing skills. Keep it up !
